[Founder of tribus lingua]
Moving to Australia is one of the most challenging [and rewarding] journeys you’ll ever experience. Too often, I see the most amazing, professional migrants - with years of experience - struggle because they try to do it all themselves and never reach out for support and guidance.
When I arrived in Sydney I was unaware of the competition for jobs.
I had done very little research and planning. I made incorrect assumptions about the Australian job market. One of my main assumptions believed that because I was Irish and had a successful corporate career it would be easy for me to get a job.
I knew very little about the job market in my field.
I had no idea how different the Australian IT market was and what jobs to apply for with my skills. I even used a two-page resume, which is not usual in Australia.
For the first three months I felt like I was on holidays.
It was a joyful experience to go to the beaches and I felt very relaxed. As time passed, I started to worry about finances and how long I - and my partner - could survive without jobs. The initial excitement wore off and I missed my friends and family.
I started job-hunting in earnest.
I used online job boards and sent my application to jobs I thought I suited. My job-hunting process followed the same path almost all skilled migrants use - and is basically the wrong approach. I would sit at home on my computer and keep sending out resumes over and over again, thinking it’s a numbers game. I either heard nothing back or I was sent a polite email rejection. I found this very confronting.
I began to lose confidence in myself.
Weeks passed with no sign of any possibility to get a job. I began to get really down on myself and it became a very dark time that I won’t forget. I began to question my decision and regretted moving to Australia. During this time I got into a state of mind that was very depressing – my mind felt like a broken record, constantly repeating thoughts about getting a job.
These feelings come from the body’s natural mechanism to deal with fear. Our reaction to fear is fight or flight and I used dark thoughts to try and escape what I perceived to be a terrible situation. Later on, I would realise that this is a creation of the mind and is not remotely helpful!